Bad Advice

Someone said, "Why consider her like she is the ONLY choice?" LoL, isn't it common sense in BGR to only focus and think about the one you know you are really interested in? And not think about others? I really wonder what they are thinking. Are the other choices, real choices? Or if the "other" choice is chosen because of over due reconsideration, might it not be just an example of undisciplined thinking?????